Grandma Stella’s Stories

Welcome to the collection of Grandma Stella’s memories, poems, and reflections.

A Bed For My Heart

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Poetry

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound grief that accompanies the loss of loved ones and the fragility of life. She shares insights on cherishing those we love in the present and finding solace in memories to survive the inevitable sorrow.

Aug 27, 2025

Of Passovers Past

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella fondly recalls the cherished traditions and family gatherings that marked the end of Passover in her youth, filled with special meals and heartfelt wishes. She shares memories of eating bread, cheese, and yogurt in the garden with loved ones.

Jun 7, 2025

The Adventures of Lilah and Coco

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares a delightful two-chapter story about Auntie Stella’s visit to Boulder with her two puppy dogs, Picasso and Ebony, and the subsequent adventures of her great-nieces, Lilah and Coco, through autumn, winter, and Christmas festivities.

Dec 30, 2023

The Korsi

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares heartwarming childhood memories of the Korsi, a traditional heated table, and the kind household staff who made winter evenings cozy with stories and warmth.

Dec 28, 2023

About An Old Dear Friend

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a surprising call from a dear friend, prompting memories of her ‘marriage tour’ in 1964. She shares a humorous and poignant anecdote about an unsuitable suitor and praises her friend’s strength and resilience during a difficult time.

Nov 20, 2023

A Most Stunning Diamond and Ruby Necklace

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a chilly autumn evening when she became captivated by a stunning diamond and ruby necklace in a magazine. She later experiences a surprising encounter with the very same necklace at a modest wedding.

Nov 5, 2023

A Lullaby of Memories

Childhood Memories
Daily Musings
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on how classical music in the early morning brings back vivid memories of her childhood, listening to her Papa’s radio.

Oct 19, 2023

Hamas, The War in Israel, and My Israeli Family

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the Hamas attack on Israel, the terror experienced by her Israeli family, and her dismay at the lack of empathy from some non-Jewish friends.

Oct 14, 2023

Make Love, Not War! A Plea For Peace

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts her profound grief after her husband Peter’s sudden passing, finding solace in a new puppy and a trip to a cherished spot. Witnessing an Israeli-Palestinian couple, she reflects on the possibility of peace amidst personal loss and global conflict, echoing her generation’s plea: “Make love, not war!”

Oct 7, 2023

Autumn’s Early Whisper

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a grey, wet Saturday morning at the start of autumn, observing the restless trees and recalling her mother’s gentle reminder about patience.

Sep 22, 2023

Disdain, Anger and Disgust on These High Holy Days

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her deep pain, anger, and disgust during the Jewish High Holy Days, contrasting her current feelings of loss and bewilderment with past joys. She grapples with her son Kelly’s suffering and the enduring memory of her late husband, Peter.

Sep 17, 2023

A Morning in September

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on a serene September morning, observing the sunrise and gentle rain, which then unexpectedly transports her back to a chilling morning many years ago: September 11th.

Sep 13, 2023

Café Shahrdari, the Café in the Park

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Saturday morning, which transports her back to magical childhood summer evenings spent with her parents at Café Shahrdari in the Middle East, complete with horse-drawn carriages and dancing.

Sep 9, 2023

Memories of You, Peter

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the enduring grief and profound love she feels for her late husband, Peter, seven years after his passing. She recounts cherished memories of their life together, his tender care, and her struggle to navigate a world without him, holding onto the hope of their reunion.

Sep 2, 2023

A Nightmare Revisited

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid and painful dream that brought back a traumatic memory from when her husband, Peter, was gravely ill in the hospital, and a shocking comment made by her son, Matthew.

Aug 19, 2023

Just Before Dawn

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on the peaceful moments of waking up just before dawn, cherishing the silence and the gentle sounds of nature as the world slowly awakens.

Aug 16, 2023

One Rotten Apple…

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the distressing experience of dealing with a cruel and harassing family who moved in next door, particularly during a time of profound personal grief. She reflects on the challenges and emotional toll of their relentless antagonism.

Aug 14, 2023

A Tea Party in the Garden in Vanak

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a serene evening in Fresh Meadows, which transports her back to a vibrant summer tea party in Tehran, recalling the sights, sounds, and people of her childhood.

Aug 12, 2023

The Lulus

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a poignant reflection on two women named Lulu who touched her life: a great-grandmother’s cousin in Baghdad and a lonely neighbor in Tehran, both sharing a remarkable gift for conversation, and finally, a new friend in New York.

Aug 11, 2023

The Beginning of the End

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the terrifying day her husband, Peter, suffered a massive heart attack, and reflects on the precious years they had afterward and her enduring grief.

Aug 4, 2023

I Wish You Enough

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a poignant encounter at an airport where a father explains the profound meaning behind his farewell wish, ‘I wish you enough,’ to his daughter. This story reflects on life’s simple yet essential blessings.

Aug 1, 2023

The Home Of The Brave

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on the film ‘Till,’ expressing her outrage and disgust over the historical injustices depicted, questioning the meaning of ‘The Home of the Free and the Land of the Brave’ in light of ongoing prejudice.

Aug 1, 2023

The Enduring Song of Crickets

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on the comforting sound of crickets, tracing their presence from her childhood evenings in Tehran to her later life in New York, connecting their chirping to different phases and challenges of her journey.

Jul 17, 2023

Fond Memories of Drinking Tea on Bygone Days

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on cherished memories of drinking tea with her father and uncle in summer, and later with her own toddlers in winter, highlighting the passage of time and the warmth of family connections.

Jul 13, 2023

A Quiet Evening at Home

Daily Musings
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful Sunday evening, finding contentment in her surroundings and a wistful connection to her late husband, only for the tranquility to be abruptly broken by an unpleasant encounter with a stranger.

Jul 3, 2023

Ironing Nightgowns and Hemming Handkerchiefs

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a charming childhood memory of her mother teaching her the art of hemming and embroidering handkerchiefs. This piece offers a glimpse into the domestic expectations and skills learned by young girls in her era.

Jul 3, 2023

The Christmas of the Eichmann Trial

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable Christmas celebration overshadowed by the Eichmann trial, where a German guest’s unexpected reaction revealed the deep impact of the Holocaust.

Jul 3, 2023

The Lamb Stew and Lingering Thoughts

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella recounts a day of food shopping, an unexpected downpour, and the kindness of a young man. While cooking lamb stew, she reflects on her youth and the passage of time.

Jun 15, 2023

A Chilled Morning, A Warm Memory

Daily Musings
Childhood Memories
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet, chilly morning, which brings back a vivid memory of a childhood friend and their shared love for Agatha Christie mysteries. She finds comfort in the memory and decides to make split pea soup.

Jun 9, 2023

The Changes

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on a chilly morning, contrasting it with a humorous memory of experiencing hot flashes during a severe snowstorm, highlighting her late husband Peter’s amazing sense of humor.

Jun 7, 2023

Of This and That and Other Things

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a phone conversation with her friend Nora, touching on topics from a royal wedding to reflections on death and ending with a discussion about beet kibbeh.

Jun 6, 2023

Food For Thought

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recorded an inspiring quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson about the true meaning of success, reflecting on a life well-lived.

May 28, 2023

I Cannot Understand People

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a distressing fall she experienced while walking to the bank, reflecting on her aging body and the contrasting reactions of strangers versus those who know her. She also muses on loss and her own mortality.

May 27, 2023

Thievery, Corruption, Bribery and the Woman in the Cadillac

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella reflects on the differing perceptions of honesty and corruption between Western and Middle Eastern cultures, sharing a personal anecdote about a surprising encounter in New York after fleeing Iran.

May 24, 2023

All Is Well in My Little World

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a day that begins with a surprisingly chilly spring morning, her beloved dogs, and a minor domestic frustration, culminating in a cozy afternoon of soup, music, and quiet contentment.

May 17, 2023

The Day Peter Died

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts the agonizing day her beloved Peter passed away eight years ago, sharing her profound grief and the enduring pain of his absence. She reflects on how she has coped with the immense loss, finding solace in memories and the garden he cultivated.

May 8, 2023

The Taste of Tea

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the comforting ritual of drinking tea, tracing its presence through her life from childhood memories in Baghdad and Tehran, to her boarding school days in England, and finally to her quiet moments of solitude in New York.

Apr 21, 2023

Recipe for a Healthy Diet for Dogs

Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella shares her simple recipe for a healthy dog diet, incorporating raw meats, vegetables, and supplements. This note provides a quick guide to nutritious additions for canine companions.

Apr 15, 2023

And Time Marches On

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the swift passage of time, pondering the transition from childhood innocence to the aches and pains of old age. She questions where the years have gone, acknowledging time’s relentless march.

Mar 11, 2023

The Echoes of Revolution: A New Beginning

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her family’s harrowing escape from Tehran during the 1979 Iranian Revolution and their disorienting arrival as immigrants in a snowy New York City.

Mar 3, 2023

Pari Was Dying

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the heartbreaking story of her friend Pari, who bravely battled cancer while worrying about her teenage son, and the unwavering support she received from Grandma Stella and other friends during her final months.

Feb 21, 2023

When Virtues Visited Me

Reflections on Life
Poetry

Grandma Stella reflects on the visits of various virtues like patience, peace, and love, sharing the profound lessons each imparted about life, self-worth, and inner strength.

Feb 21, 2023

Beauty, an Allegory

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares an allegorical tale about two sisters, Jeanette and Odette, exploring how inner character ultimately shapes one’s outward appearance and life satisfaction. It reflects on the lasting nature of inner beauty versus the fleeting quality of superficial looks.

Feb 17, 2023

Love Isn’t All Hearts and Flowers

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the true nature of love, emphasizing that it’s often found in everyday acts of care and support rather than grand gestures. She encourages gratitude for all forms of love, including self-love, especially on Valentine’s Day.

Feb 14, 2023

Léon’s Restaurant and Davar

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts cherished childhood memories of dining at Léon’s, an elegant European restaurant, and the special bond she shared with their waiter, Davar. She reflects on how these experiences shaped her appreciation for fine dining and created lasting impressions.

Feb 12, 2023

Franz Kafka and The Little Girl

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming anecdote about Franz Kafka, who comforted a crying little girl by writing letters from her lost doll, teaching her about change and love. The story concludes with Grandma Stella’s own reflections on embracing change and creating connection.

Feb 8, 2023

Our Iraqi Jewish Roots

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her family’s history as Iraqi Jews, detailing the reasons for their departure from Baghdad due to rising antisemitism and their subsequent moves to Tehran and the United States.

Feb 8, 2023

What the Trees Said

Poetry
Reflections on Life
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares a powerful poem she relates to, exploring the societal pressures on women and the peace found in nature’s acceptance.

Feb 1, 2023

The Story of Nargess

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the poignant life story of Nargess, a woman who worked for her family, detailing her hardships, resilience, and the enduring bond they shared across continents.

Jan 29, 2023

The Morning Routine

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares her peaceful new morning routine with Pussycat while Teal is away, describing their quiet companionship over a cup of tea as the day begins.

Jan 27, 2023

My Mother’s Jewelry Box

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming story about her mother’s musical jewelry box, a cherished item that evokes vivid memories from her childhood and connects her to her past and loved ones.

Jan 26, 2023

A Heart of Gold

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a rainy evening when her son, Kelly, showed a profound act of kindness by waiting with her hairdresser, Madeleine, after synagogue. She reflects on Madeleine’s resilience and expresses immense pride in her son’s honorable character.

Jan 21, 2023

The Snow’s Gentle Kiss

Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a beautiful quote from Lewis Carroll, reflecting on the gentle, nurturing relationship between snow and nature.

Jan 18, 2023

One Passover a Hundred Years Ago

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella shares a vivid family anecdote about her father’s childhood rebellion against his strict rabbi father, culminating in a memorable Passover Seder prank and a lifelong vow. The story also delves into the challenging lives of her great-grandmother and grandmother.

Jan 8, 2023

Evening Thoughts

Daily Musings
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound impact of Rimsky-Korsakov’s Shahrezad, recalling how it moved her from a young age. She describes how the music transports her back to her youth, allowing her to dance gracefully in her mind, even as her pets listen contentedly.

Jan 5, 2023

New Year’s Eve With Pussycat

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a lonely New Year’s Eve spent cat-sitting, which takes an anxious turn when she fears her pampered charge has escaped. She describes her frantic search and the relief of finding her feline companion safe.

Jan 1, 2023

GOAL, Pelé, GOAL!

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on the passing of Pelé, recalling a vivid childhood memory of her brother’s excitement while listening to a football game. She contemplates the passage of time and the impact of such figures on people’s lives.

Dec 30, 2022

Khadijeh

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on Khadijeh, a kind seamstress who visited her family during her childhood in Iran, and contemplates the challenges Khadijeh faced due to a physical disability in a society where marriage was paramount.

Dec 27, 2022

The Kiddush Cup: A Legacy of Resilience

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the incredible journey of a sterling silver kiddush cup, a cherished gift from her maternal grandmother, through multiple forced migrations and personal hardships, culminating in a new family tradition.

Dec 22, 2022

Anna, My Angel

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts her cherished childhood memories of Anna, her kind Russian nanny, who brought joy and comfort during a difficult time. The story culminates in a poignant reflection on Anna’s lasting impact and tragic passing.

Dec 21, 2022

A Tehran Summer: Friendship Rekindled

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a delightful summer day in Tehran many years ago, when her English boarding school friend, Susanne, visited her and her family. The story is filled with warm hospitality, swimming, lively conversation, and a poignant reflection on the passage of time.

Dec 13, 2022

A Holiday Prayer

Poetry
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a heartfelt holiday prayer, wishing for happiness, peace, love, joy, and good health to all during the festive season.

Dec 9, 2022

Unjust Judgment and a Mother’s Fury

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella expresses her profound anger and disappointment with close friends who unfairly judged her son, Kelly, after his breakup with Andrea. She recounts instances of Andrea’s questionable behavior and defends Kelly’s character against their harsh judgment.

Dec 9, 2022

Khiaban Lalezar, Between Reality and Wishful Thinking

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a rainy day and a neighbor’s grief, which transports her back to vivid childhood memories of Tehran in the 1950s and 60s, complete with delicious food, family, and bustling streets.

Nov 30, 2022

Papa’s Baghdadi Muslim Friend

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the long history of Iraqi Jews, the rise of antisemitism, and the atrocities they faced, culminating in her family’s escape thanks to a brave Muslim friend. She reflects on the enduring power of true friendship amidst historical turmoil and displacement.

Nov 29, 2022

A Gentle Whisper

Poetry
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a tender poem, originally by Athey Thompson, that serves as a gentle reminder to be kind, slow, and gentle with our thoughts and words, recognizing our own preciousness.

Nov 23, 2022

One Day in October

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a cherished childhood memory of a peaceful Friday morning walk with her father in Tehran, reflecting on the beauty of autumn and the swift passage of time. She also recalls the excitement of receiving her first watch.

Nov 20, 2022

A Mother’s Declaration of Independence

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a poignant story about her mother’s sudden transformation from an irritable, exhausted woman to one who embraces personal responsibility, leading to a healthier family dynamic. This change profoundly impacts the entire family.

Nov 8, 2022

Echoes of Tehran: A Life’s Journey

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella shares vivid memories of her life in Tehran, from childhood outings to Cafe Shahrdari and her unexpected meeting with her husband, to adventurous family picnics in the Alborz Mountains. She also recounts her experiences at boarding school in England, contrasting it with her vibrant home.

Nov 8, 2022

Dance Me to the End of Love

Love & Romance
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound love she shared with her late husband, Peter, and how his memory continues to bring her comfort and a sense of his enduring presence.

Nov 5, 2022

The Magic of Our Time Together

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on her birthday, recalling cherished memories of special occasions and everyday moments shared with her late husband, Peter, and the enduring love that binds them.

Oct 26, 2022

Does Anyone Read Books Anymore?

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella muses on the changing landscape of reading, expressing her sadness over the decline of physical books and sharing cherished memories of her lifelong love affair with them.

Oct 21, 2022

The Smiling Lips

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a poignant quote from Charlie Chaplin about finding resilience and maintaining a positive outlook despite life’s challenges.

Oct 17, 2022

An Ode to Autumn Days

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings
Poetry

Grandma Stella shares her anticipation for the arrival of autumn, describing the subtle changes in the air and nature. She reflects on the sensory delights of the season, from chilly days to changing foliage and warm tea.

Oct 9, 2022

The House Down the Next Block

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the lonely life and unnoticed death of an old man who lived down the street, and later, a tragic event involving a young girl in the same house, prompting her to ponder human connection and isolation.

Oct 9, 2022

A Chilly Day, Warm Traditions

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a chilly autumn day, preparing for Yom Kippur with her family. She recalls cherished traditions like her mother’s chicken soup and homemade apple jam, finding peace and spiritual cleansing in the High Holy Days.

Oct 3, 2022

After Rosh Hashanah Services Were Over

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished Rosh Hashanah tradition with her late husband, Peter, recalling their spontaneous post-service drives and the joy he brought to her life. She shares her enduring love and longing for him, even as she prepares for the second day of services.

Sep 27, 2022

Keshmesh Polow: Rimon’s Recipe

Recipes & Food Stories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares Rimon’s recipe for Keshmesh Polow, a delicious rice dish featuring fried onions, raisins, and aromatic spices. She includes a special winter variation with grated orange peel.

Sep 20, 2022

Sleepless Night Musings

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on a sleepless night, finding solace in the gentle rain and the ever-present music of the world. She contemplates the beauty of nature and the arts, ultimately choosing a day of peaceful dawdling over chores.

Sep 12, 2022

On This Rosh Hashanah And Yom Kippur 5783, I Thank You For Your Kindnesses

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the High Holy Days, expressing profound gratitude to her dear friends and family who have supported her through the challenging years since her beloved husband, Peter, passed away. She shares heartfelt appreciation for their kindness, compassion, and unwavering presence.

Sep 11, 2022

The Day God Took You Home

Loss & Grief
Poetry

Grandma Stella shares a poignant poem reflecting on the profound grief and enduring love felt after losing a loved one. It speaks to the unbreakable bond that transcends death.

Sep 2, 2022

What Bedlam Is This?

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella expresses her exasperation with the city’s relentless road construction, which has disrupted her once-quiet street for three consecutive summers, bringing noise, dust, and new traffic. She wonders if the constant upheaval is causing distress to her neighbours.

Aug 3, 2022

On a Cool Rainy Day in August

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a cozy, rainy August morning spent with her beloved dogs, Picasso and Ebony, who insist on experiencing the wet weather firsthand before settling back into contentment.

Aug 2, 2022

On Children

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Poetry

Grandma Stella shares a profound excerpt from Kahlil Gibran’s ‘The Prophet,’ reflecting on the nature of parenthood and the independence of children. This timeless piece offers wisdom on love, guidance, and allowing children to forge their own paths.

Jul 30, 2022

A Grandma’s Hug

Family & Relationships
Poetry
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella beautifully reflects on the unique comfort and unconditional love found in a grandmother’s embrace, a sacred space that offers solace and joy.

Jul 18, 2022

Aloneness

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound feeling of aloneness that lingers after the loss of a loved one, describing the emptiness left behind.

Jul 14, 2022

The Pandemic and the Dermatologist

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts her frustrating experience with an unrelenting rash during the height of the pandemic, her grandson’s ingenious efforts to get her vaccinated, and a subsequent, rather bizarre, visit to a new dermatologist.

Jul 14, 2022

The Newspaper Seller

Poetry
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a poignant poem about an old newspaper seller, a familiar figure enduring the elements and the passage of time in his small wooden hut.

Jul 6, 2022

A Pleasant Afternoon Interrupted

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a peaceful afternoon on her porch, enjoying the gentle sounds of nature, which is abruptly disturbed by a loud motorcycle, leading her to reflect on modern society.

Jun 29, 2022

A Comforting Note on Peter’s Anniversary

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

On the seventh anniversary of Peter’s passing, Grandma Stella reflects on her grief and finds solace in a heartfelt note from Richard, a friend who remembers the joy and love she brought to Peter’s life.

Jun 13, 2022

Peter and The Judge

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming and humorous anecdote about her late husband, Peter, a dedicated attorney, and his unique relationship with a client’s family and a judge in the courtroom.

May 31, 2022

The City of Extremes Invites Food For Thought

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the stark contrasts of wealth and poverty she observes in New York, prompted by seeing a man scavenge for food and recalling instances of extreme wastefulness. She ponders how such extremes can coexist in a wealthy city.

May 25, 2022

A Magician Dentist and My Dental Adventures

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts her long history of dental mishaps, culminating in the extraction of her two front teeth by a “magician” dentist, Sean Ganjian, after her cousin Olivia Masry, her regular dentist, was unable to perform the procedure. She shares her anxieties leading up to the appointment and her relief at the painless outcome.

May 23, 2022

The Would-Be Thief

Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous morning incident where her dogs, Picasso and Ebony, bravely thwarted a potential intruder in her garden. She shares her amusement and pride in her furry protectors.

May 23, 2022

The Morning Starts With The Milkman

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts her childhood mornings in Tehran, vividly describing the daily visit from the milkman, the bustling family breakfast, and the distinct routines that marked the start of a new day. She shares charming details about her family and the cultural nuances of the time.

May 20, 2022

Reflections on an Unfathomable Act

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the incomprehensible violence of a recent mass shooting, contrasting it with her own past experience of helping a dying friend find peace, and grappling with profound questions about life, death, and human actions.

May 17, 2022

Where Do We Go?

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a poignant dialogue between Rabbit and Bear, exploring the tender question of where we go after we die.

May 11, 2022

Green Cathedral

Poetry
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a beautiful poem about a ‘green cathedral’ in nature, where she finds solace and connection with the divine amidst the trees and birdsong.

May 5, 2022

The Lace Tablecloth and Lingering Memories

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a phone call from an old friend, which sparks a cascade of memories, from lively holidays in London to poignant Passover visits with her ailing parents in Los Angeles, culminating in a cherished trip to Santa Barbara where she found a special lace tablecloth.

Apr 20, 2022

Franz Kafka and the Girl in the Park

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a touching anecdote about Franz Kafka, who, at 40, helped a little girl cope with the loss of her favorite doll by writing her letters from the doll, detailing its adventures. This heartwarming story culminates in a profound message about love and loss.

Apr 9, 2022

Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel)

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Poetry

Grandma Stella shares the poignant lyrics to Billy Joel’s “Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel),” reflecting on its message about love, memory, and the enduring legacy passed from parent to child.

Apr 8, 2022

A Taste of Childhood: White Bean Stew

Childhood Memories
Recipes & Food Stories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming memory of her childhood winters, where the simple aroma of white bean stew transports her back to a bustling kitchen and the loving presence of her family. This musing beautifully intertwines the past with the present, all sparked by a humble container of dried white beans.

Apr 7, 2022

The Heart of Paddington Bear

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares the poignant inspiration behind Michael Bond’s Paddington Bear, revealing its connection to Jewish refugee children during WWII and the enduring message of compassion.

Mar 21, 2022

Igor and the Butter Sandwich

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a morning walk that sparks a vivid childhood memory of a boy named Igor and a butter sandwich, leading to a poignant reflection on empathy, hunger, and privilege.

Mar 14, 2022

Prejudice

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts deeply personal experiences with prejudice, from a harrowing encounter at an airport in 1972 to the challenges of immigrating to the United States after the Iranian Revolution. She reflects on the pervasive nature of hatred and finds a glimmer of hope in an unexpected connection.

Mar 11, 2022

Don’t Quit

Poetry
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares an inspiring poem by Edgar A. Guest, encouraging perseverance through life’s challenges. It reminds us to never give up, even when things seem most difficult.

Mar 9, 2022

Don’t Miss Me More

Poetry
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

In this poignant poem, Grandma Stella shares a message of comfort and resilience, encouraging loved ones not to dwell on her absence but to embrace life and find gladness in their memories. It’s a beautiful reflection on coping with loss and the enduring nature of love.

Mar 7, 2022

A Ruthless Monster

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound horror and disbelief she felt after hearing a news report about a young Ukrainian soldier’s tragic death. She also recounts a conversation with her cousin about the fears of a nuclear attack, leading her to a stark realization about the nature of war.

Feb 28, 2022

Poignant Thoughts Of My Parents

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella shares a deeply personal and emotional memory of her parents, particularly her mother’s decline after a brain tumour and her father’s subsequent grief, interwoven with reflections on their enduring love.

Feb 18, 2022

The Rose Brooch

Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the story of a rose brooch, a cherished memento from a pivotal trip to Italy with her father in 1972, which helped her find peace during a difficult time. The brooch symbolizes her father’s enduring love and the resilience she discovered.

Feb 3, 2022

A Valentine’s Lesson

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a childhood Valentine’s Day memory, recalling an “unwanted beau” named Freddy Frank and the valuable lesson her mother taught her about kindness and graciousness. It’s a sweet reflection on a formative moment.

Feb 1, 2022

A Strauss Waltz and Other Ramblings On a Snowy Day

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella shares a morning’s musings, from a dream of waltzing with her late husband Peter to the quiet companionship of her cats and the comfort of her beloved books on a snowy day.

Jan 28, 2022

The Arctic Trip and Mrs. Smith

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a perplexing and ultimately repulsing experience surrounding the death of a friend’s mother, revealing a shocking lack of empathy and a focus on material indulgence.

Jan 26, 2022

A Time for Contemplation

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet, grey day, finding solace in classical music and wandering through cherished memories of family and past experiences. She contemplates the different phases of life and the beauty of quiet introspection.

Jan 25, 2022

An Uneasy Dream

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid and unsettling dream where her house is ravaged by a storm, yet her son’s voice calls to her, leaving her with a deep sense of concern upon waking.

Jan 21, 2022

A Memory of Salzburg

Childhood Memories
Travel & Adventure
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a photograph that transports her back to her youth, specifically to summers spent in a fragrant garden in Salzburg, Austria, where she and her sister learned German and absorbed the local culture.

Jan 18, 2022

A Loving Dedication

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella dedicates this work to the memory of her loving parents, Joseph and Berta Tawfik, acknowledging their fundamental role in her existence.

Dec 30, 2021

Mornings With Pussycat

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares her peaceful morning routine with her beloved cat, Pussycat, detailing their shared moments of warmth, music, and quiet companionship as the winter sky brightens.

Dec 30, 2021

Words of Enduring Love

Love & Romance
Loss & Grief
Poetry

Grandma Stella shares a poignant collection of quotes reflecting on enduring love, the pain of loss, and the everlasting presence of loved ones in our hearts.

Dec 23, 2021

Pussycat

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a chaotic day when her cat, Pussycat, visits, encountering a new housekeeper, boisterous dogs, and a loud family member. The story concludes with a quiet, reflective moment, as Grandma Stella finds comfort in Pussycat’s presence while missing her late husband, Peter.

Dec 22, 2021

Growing in Love

Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the journey of love, from initial attraction to the deeper, more enduring commitment of growing together, emphasizing forgiveness, trust, and selfless giving.

Dec 14, 2021

The Emperor’s Waltz

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella beautifully recounts two cherished moments of dancing the Emperor’s Waltz: first as a child with her beloved Papa, and then years later with Peter on a snowy evening. She reflects on the magic and blessing of these memories and the wonderful men in her life.

Dec 14, 2021

One Sunday Morning

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a quiet Sunday morning, waking early after a restless night, finding comfort in a book and warm tea, and reflecting on the peacefulness of the day and cherished memories of her late husband, Peter.

Dec 12, 2021

A Hanukkah Memory

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid Hanukkah memory from when her children were young, making soufganiyot and enduring the greasy aftermath for the joy of their laughter. She reflects on how the memory still brings warmth, despite her subsequent dislike for fried foods.

Nov 28, 2021

Why I Choose to Live Fully

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares her personal reflections on vaccination, emphasizing her trust in science and her desire to live life fully, travel, and hug loved ones without fear. She explains her reasons for getting vaccinated, not to please the government, but to protect herself and others and to reclaim a sense of normalcy.

Nov 26, 2021

At the Dawn of a New Day

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on a melancholy morning, a recent knee injury, and dreams of past adventures with Peter, all while gazing out her kitchen window at the changing season. She contemplates the passage of time and the arrival of a new day.

Nov 20, 2021

From a Departed Beloved Spouse

Loss & Grief
Love & Romance
Poetry

In this poignant poem, Grandma Stella shares a message from the perspective of a beloved spouse who has passed on, offering comfort and reassurance to their grieving partner.

Nov 16, 2021

Beyond Differences

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella reflects on the nature of friendship and human connection, prompted by attending a memorial service for her Muslim friend’s sister. She shares a poignant story from her past in Tehran about a couple who navigated religious and cultural differences, highlighting the importance of opening one’s heart.

Nov 12, 2021

On a Spooky Autumn Night

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a suspenseful evening watching a Swedish thriller, only to be interrupted by a mysterious doorbell ring that sends chills down her spine. She bravely confronts the stranger, only to find a simple resolution to her fright.

Nov 10, 2021

The Story of Shahrbanu

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the heartbreaking story of Shahrbanu, a beloved young woman whose family moved to Tehran seeking a better life after a devastating epidemic. It explores themes of family, loss, and the profound changes brought by historical events.

Nov 2, 2021

The Fortunoff Sales Lady

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid memory of a shopping trip to Fortunoff with her parents, where a rude sales lady’s behavior led to a memorable confrontation and a small act of defiance. The story is sparked by her using a serving knife from that very trip.

Oct 19, 2021

The Winter of Our Lives

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella reflects on the swift passage of time, the unexpected arrival of old age, and the importance of living fully in the present. She shares humorous observations about aging and cherishes old friends.

Oct 17, 2021

The Aroma of Friday Afternoons

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts how the aroma of freshly grated nutmeg transports her back to her childhood in her parents’ home, vividly recalling the elaborate Friday afternoon meals and tea gatherings with family and friends.

Oct 5, 2021

Memories of Finchley Road

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished memories of Finchley Road, from her teenage years shopping at Boots and accompanying Auntie Moselle, to later visits with her own children and a poignant return to the old house. She beautifully captures the passage of time and the enduring power of memory.

Oct 2, 2021

A Plea for Compassion

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella writes a heartfelt letter to Saul, expressing deep concern and compassion for a struggling woman named Jackie, whose family seems to have abandoned her. She reflects on the importance of family support and understanding for those who are ‘broken’ but not visibly disabled.

Oct 1, 2021

As You Age

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a humorous and relatable anecdote about the everyday forgetfulness and distractions that can make simple tasks surprisingly complicated as one gets older.

Sep 17, 2021

The Mysterious Visitor

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts her efforts to prepare for a modest Rosh Hashanah dinner, navigating the challenge of retrieving seldom-used holiday dishes. Later, she is startled by a mysterious knocking sound that leads to a humorous realization.

Sep 10, 2021

As a Jew: A Rabbi’s Response

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a powerful response from Rabbi Danny Maseng, addressing a president’s controversial remarks about Jewish voters. The rabbi articulates his Jewish values and condemns the president’s actions and rhetoric, drawing on personal and historical context.

Sep 2, 2021

A Taste of Memory: Shopping for Lamb’s Brains

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous shopping trip for Rosh Hashanah ingredients, which unexpectedly leads to a nostalgic purchase of lamb’s brains, a favorite dish from her childhood and her father.

Aug 31, 2021

A Sweet Memory in Time

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on a cherished winter Sunday morning spent making crêpes Suzette with her beloved Peter, a memory filled with love and contentment. She feels his presence even now, a faint kiss from the past.

Aug 29, 2021

The Cicadas

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a peaceful morning on her porch, listening to the cicadas and enjoying breakfast. This quiet moment leads her to recall a cherished memory of her parents and aunt visiting on the same porch many summers ago.

Aug 27, 2021

A Rainy Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful rainy morning, observing her sleeping cats and finding comfort in the sounds of nature.

Aug 23, 2021

Night Thoughts

Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella shares her reflections during a sleepless night, recalling a vivid childhood memory of stars and dolls, and connecting it to her present feelings of loss and yearning.

Aug 17, 2021

On Loss

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound experience of loss, connecting the mournful cry of a turtledove in her garden to the grief of a family losing a loved one, and her own past sorrows. She describes the raw emotions of a family gathered around a friend’s deathbed, highlighting the universal pain of saying goodbye.

Aug 14, 2021

Remembering Papa

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her Papa’s birthday, recalling his profound love and care. She cherishes his invaluable gift of education and reason, which shaped her appreciation for music, literature, integrity, and self-worth.

Aug 14, 2021

Breakfasting on the Peaks of Sarband

Childhood Memories
Travel & Adventure
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella recounts thrilling childhood memories of riding sure-footed mules up the steep peaks of Sarband in Iran to a remote village, where she and her family enjoyed delicious, fresh country breakfasts. She reflects on the stark contrast between her youthful appearance and the weathered villagers, and the exhilarating yet terrifying journey.

Aug 4, 2021

A Restless Night, A Serene Morning

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a morning that began with a restless night and a rush to prepare for her cleaning lady, only to find an unexpected change of plans. She describes how the morning transformed into a peaceful time in her garden with her pets.

Jul 28, 2021

Echoes of the Past

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Sunday, recalling cherished memories of walking with her mother and children to the park. She contemplates the passage of time and the meaning of existence.

Jul 18, 2021

The Lullaby of Rain

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella recounts a sleepless night, finding solace and eventual rest through the gentle rhythm of rain and soothing classical music.

Jul 9, 2021

The Start of Fourth of July Weekend

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful, rainy morning at the start of the Fourth of July weekend, observing nature and enjoying the quiet calm before the holiday festivities.

Jul 2, 2021

Blanche

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the life of Blanche, a reclusive and deeply religious neighbor, observing her loneliness and eventual peace, and contemplating the impact of human connection.

Jun 25, 2021

Footsteps

Childhood Memories
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts two instances where she was awakened by mysterious footsteps in the night, first as a young mother in Tehran and later in her current home. She shares her brave and resourceful reactions to these unsettling experiences, reflecting on her past and present self.

Jun 25, 2021

A June Morning’s Melody

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a peaceful June morning, her interactions with her beloved pets, and her reflections on the origins of music in nature, concluding with a poignant memory of Peter.

Jun 17, 2021

A Walk on the Beach

Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts two unforgettable and humorous encounters at what turned out to be a nudist beach, years apart, involving her children and later her grandchildren and dog.

Jun 7, 2021

A Lesson in Liberty

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a powerful true story about a history teacher who taught her students the true meaning of freedom and sacrifice by having U.S. Veterans bring desks into the classroom. It’s a poignant reminder of the price paid for education and liberty.

Jun 1, 2021

Because of Him

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella pours out her raw grief and anger over the loss of Peter, whose death she attributes to the actions of a ‘demanding useless client.’ She reflects on the injustice of his passing and the profound emptiness it has left in her life.

Jun 1, 2021

An Unexpected Encounter in the Waiting Room

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a snowy day trip to the doctor’s office with her husband, Peter, where a crowded waiting room leads to an amusing confrontation with a rude woman. The story highlights her husband’s ability to sleep anywhere and their cozy return home.

May 24, 2021

Pretty Woman

Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a quiet day that leads her to reflect on a magical winter trip to Zakopane, Poland, with her late husband, Peter, where they watched “Pretty Woman” in Polish amidst the snowy Tatra Mountains.

May 2, 2021

A Temporary Setback

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella writes a heartfelt letter to her friend Rimon, offering words of encouragement and strength during a difficult time. She reminds Rimon of her resilience and past triumphs, emphasizing that challenges are merely temporary setbacks.

Apr 29, 2021

Our Neighborhood Treasure

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished neighborhood Italian restaurant, recalling fond memories of dining there with Peter and contrasting it with a disappointing experience at a city eatery. She expresses a longing to return to her favorite spot after the pandemic.

Apr 29, 2021

A Cry for Peace

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella expresses her profound anger and despair over recent police killings of black men, questioning the violence and recalling a past conversation with her aunt about gun violence in America.

Apr 15, 2021

Memories of Santek Khethra of Years Gone By

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella fondly recalls the vibrant celebrations of the last day of Passover in Tehran, filled with family, traditional foods, laughter, and the joyful chant of ‘Santek Kethra!’

Apr 2, 2021

The Awakening of Spring

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a peaceful morning observation of her garden as spring awakens, despite the temperamental weather. She notes the budding trees, emerging bulbs, and her smiling rosebush, finding contentment in the simple beauty of nature.

Apr 1, 2021

The Doves Are Gently Cooing

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a quiet, reflective morning, observing the cooing doves and twittering birds outside her window. She finds comfort in the presence of her cat, Pussy Cat, amidst a changing spring day.

Mar 31, 2021

A Cardinal’s Anniversary Visit

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on her anniversary and the Persian New Year, remembering her late husband Peter while preparing for a smaller Passover Seder. She shares her daily preparations, family visits, and a poignant encounter with a cardinal she believes is Peter.

Mar 21, 2021

Aunty Victoria and the Apple Tree

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous tale about her eccentric Auntie Victoria and her quiet Uncle Selim, highlighting their contrasting personalities and a memorable incident involving an apple tree and a burnt electric kettle.

Mar 16, 2021

A Cold Frigid Day

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella describes a cold, frigid day spent indoors, finding comfort in a book, pressed coffee, and hot cross buns. She invites the reader to join her in this simple pleasure.

Mar 7, 2021

Reminiscences of Mrs. Harris’s Days

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella shares vivid memories of her time at a London boarding school in the 1950s, reflecting on the kind Mrs. Harris, the stern housekeeper Bessie, and the daily life and adventures of the girls under their care.

Mar 7, 2021

The First Day of March

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella recounts a quiet, chilly morning on the first day of March, where she is awakened by a lone bird’s song before drifting back to sleep.

Mar 1, 2021

Mr. Schmitt

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid memory from her teenage years, when a German family friend reacted unexpectedly to the news of Eichmann’s trial verdict during a Jewish family birthday celebration. The memory was brought back by watching a film decades later.

Feb 28, 2021

I Am a Good Person

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on self-worth and the opinions of others, prompted by a conversation with her daughter-in-law and recalling a powerful past encounter after the loss of her beloved Peter.

Feb 22, 2021

Snowfalls and Pomegranate Soup

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella reflects on a recent snowstorm, which evokes vivid memories of winter afternoons in Tehran with her mother and young children, making and eating soup. She then prepares pomegranate soup in the present, connecting her past and present experiences.

Feb 5, 2021

The Enigma of Jadey

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella shares her delightful musings about Jadey, a beautiful, free-spirited Maine Coon cat who frequently visits her home but refuses to be tied down. She reflects on their unique friendship and Jadey’s independent nature.

Jan 31, 2021

Waking Up

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella shares a morning musing, reflecting on the transition from sleep to wakefulness, the sounds of a stormy night, and a brief memory of her youth in Bexhill-on-Sea, all while acknowledging the present reality of an aging woman in a pandemic-filled world. She then describes the start of her day with a cup of tea.

Jan 29, 2021

The Year Twenty Twenty

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the unprecedented year of 2020, discussing its profound impact on humanity, from fostering humility and kindness to re-evaluating life’s true values. She shares a personal anecdote about her son’s simple yet beautiful wedding, highlighting the importance of love and connection over material excess.

Jan 5, 2021

Hamadan Summer

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella recounts a cherished childhood summer spent in Hamadan, Iran, with her mother and a lively group of friends and their children. She vividly describes the hotel, the daily routines, and the joyous atmosphere of their three-week getaway.

Jan 4, 2021

Reflections on a Year Unprecedented

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound impact of the year 2020 and the pandemic, noting how it reshaped perspectives on life, humility, and human connection. She shares her hopes for a healthier and happier 2021.

Dec 31, 2020

On a Christmas Day

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable Christmas Day when a fierce storm and a broken boiler led to an unexpected encounter with a cheerful repairman, brightening her holiday spirit.

Dec 25, 2020

Adieu 2020, Welcome 2021: Lessons from an Unprecedented Year

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the unprecedented year of 2020, sharing her thoughts on the pandemic’s impact on humanity, the importance of valuing basics, and the beauty of a simple family wedding.

Dec 24, 2020

The Cell Phone

Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her humorous and often frustrating journey with technology, from her early struggles with computers as a realtor to her eventual, albeit reluctant, adoption of cell phones, thanks to her husband, Peter.

Dec 22, 2020

The Case of the Delayed Holiday Stamps

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her frustrating wait for holiday stamps, which leads to a cozy day of reflection and old Christmas films, before the stamps finally arrive, along with a surprising Christmas card from Poland.

Dec 21, 2020

The Christmas Stamps

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her frustrating experience waiting for Christmas stamps to arrive, leading to a humorous reflection on the postal service and a cozy day at home.

Dec 21, 2020

The Holiday Stamps

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her humorous and frustrating experience waiting for holiday stamps to arrive, leading to a day of unexpected indulgence and reflection.

Dec 21, 2020

Fireflies

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on a warm summer night in her garden, finding solace in nature and memories of her departed soulmate. She finds comfort in the moon’s assurance and the gentle presence of fireflies.

Dec 14, 2020

Blanca and Her Children

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the poignant story of Blanca, an industrious young woman from South America who worked tirelessly in New York to save money and bring her children to the United States, facing unexpected challenges at the border.

Nov 4, 2020

The Tricycle

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her lifelong journey with bicycles, from never learning to ride as a child to her adventurous tandem bike tours with Peter, and her eventual longing for a tricycle.

Oct 29, 2020

A Drizzly Morning

Daily Musings
Loss & Grief
Nature & Seasons

On a drizzly morning, Grandma Stella reflects on cherished memories of early walks in the woods with Peter, feeling his presence even in his absence. The scent of autumn leaves brings back a wave of nostalgia and a quiet smile.

Oct 23, 2020

The Strength of Peter Gynt

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on how Edvard Grieg’s ‘Peter Gynt’ and small joys helped her find strength during a difficult period in her life. She recounts how these elements, along with her love for her children, enabled her to persevere.

Oct 23, 2020

And Now My Work is Done

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the passage of time and her changing role in life after her children have moved out and her beloved husband, Peter, has passed away. She recounts memories of her past, including escaping the Iranian Revolution, and contemplates her purpose in this new stage of life.

Oct 20, 2020

A Magical Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a beautiful morning experience, finding magic in the interplay of sunlight and autumn leaves, which fills her with a sense of wonder and optimism for the day ahead.

Oct 9, 2020

As Time Marches On

Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the rapid passage of time as she observes the autumn leaves changing outside her kitchen window, personifying their reluctance to let go of summer.

Oct 7, 2020

A Lovely Autumn Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on a beautiful autumn morning, observing the changing leaves, the joyous songs of birds, and the playful antics of her visiting pups. She finds peace in the simple beauty of nature and her home, wishing her loved one, Peter, were there to share it.

Oct 5, 2020

The Widow

Loss & Grief
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the pain of losing her husband amidst the pandemic, recalling a peculiar phone call from a woman offering unsolicited advice about food stamps. She contrasts this encounter with the struggles of truly needy individuals, expressing her outrage at those who exploit the system.

Oct 2, 2020

Grandma Stella’s Shortbread Recipe

Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella shares her simple and delicious recipe for classic shortbread, perfect for a sweet treat.

Aug 24, 2020

The Porch

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the many happy memories made on her porch over forty years, from family visits with Peter to observing a new, lonely neighbor during the pandemic, finding solace in her thoughts and the sounds of nature.

Aug 18, 2020

The General’s Wife

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the extraordinary life of Pari, a woman from a royal Persian family, detailing her privileged upbringing, the devastating impact of the Iranian Revolution, and her eventual resilience in exile, where she formed a close friendship with Stella.

Aug 15, 2020

Boundaries in Business

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a challenging experience during her time as a realtor, navigating an uncomfortable encounter with a client while trying to maintain professional boundaries. She shares how she dealt with inappropriate behavior and the complexities of client relationships.

Aug 13, 2020

My All

Loss & Grief
Love & Romance
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella pens a heartfelt tribute to her beloved husband, remembering his unwavering love and the joy he brought into her life. She expresses her eternal devotion and the profound impact he had on her.

Aug 13, 2020

A Debt of Kindness

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the extraordinary story of the Hardaga family, who risked their lives to shelter Jewish friends during the Holocaust, and how decades later, their kindness was repaid during the Siege of Sarajevo. It’s a powerful testament to enduring friendship and humanity.

Aug 6, 2020

Our Salzburg Adventure

Childhood Memories
Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships

This story recounts Grandma Stella’s vivid memories of a summer trip to Salzburg with her sister, arranged by their father. It details their train journey across Europe, their stay with the Fellners, and the cultural experiences and friendships they made.

Aug 6, 2020

The Night That The Thunder Struck

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a powerful thunderstorm, describing its dramatic display and the fear it instilled, before finding peace in the gentle rain that followed. She uses vivid imagery to capture the storm’s intensity and its eventual calming.

Jul 31, 2020

When Insults Had Class

Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella shares a collection of classic, witty insults from various famous figures, highlighting a time when cleverness was key.

Jul 29, 2020

On A Quiet Sunday Morning

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Sunday morning, observing her surroundings, interactions with neighbors, and a brief moment of disappointment when her grandson leaves without saying hello. She finds solace in the peaceful atmosphere and her memories.

Jul 26, 2020

Summer Thoughts

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet summer morning, observing the diverse life in her neighborhood, and fondly remembering a loved one.

Jul 26, 2020

Musings on a Rainy Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella describes waking to the sound of a thunderstorm, contemplating the rain, and eventually finding peace and sleep in her armchair with a cup of tea.

Jul 24, 2020

The Report Card

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her school days, her struggles with certain subjects, and the profound impact her father’s strict views on education had on her, a perspective shaped by his own challenging path to schooling.

Jul 21, 2020

The Unanswered Doorbell

Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous misunderstanding when her friend Shama, unable to reach her by phone, arrived at her door with a frantic ringing, fearing the worst.

Jul 21, 2020

A Summer Evening On The Porch

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts the enchanting “Magic Road” she invented stories about for children, a road that now guides a friend home. She shares a playful late-night exchange with this friend, who teases her about being on the porch so late.

Jul 17, 2020

The Birds

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a recent storm’s aftermath and her encounter with a trapped bird on her porch. She reflects on how her attempts to help initially agitated the bird, but it eventually found its own way out when she gave it space.

Jul 14, 2020

A Legacy of Love in Cookery Books

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on two cherished cookery books, one from her mother and one from her aunt, intertwining their histories with her own memories of family and love, culminating in a poignant reflection on loss.

Jul 11, 2020

A Plea for Protection

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the tragic death of a young man due to the coronavirus, emphasizing the pain and senselessness of his loss. She urges readers to wear masks to protect themselves and others from such a fate.

Jul 10, 2020

For the Lack of a Protective Mask

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the tragic death of a young, seemingly invincible man from COVID-19, highlighting the devastating impact of the virus and the critical importance of wearing a protective mask.

Jul 10, 2020

An Unwelcome Visitor

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a day of unexpected chaos, culminating in a deeply unsettling encounter with a neighbor from her past. The visit brings back painful memories and leaves her shaken, reflecting on the lingering impact of unwelcome people.

Jul 7, 2020

The Persistent Doorbell

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a chaotic day that culminates in an unsettling visit from a long-lost neighbor, bringing back painful memories and unresolved emotions.

Jul 7, 2020

From Fireworks to Starlit Tehran Nights

Daily Musings
Childhood Memories
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on the noisy Fourth of July fireworks, which unexpectedly transport her back to serene, starlit summer nights spent on a terraced roof in Tehran.

Jul 4, 2020

The Mulberry Orchard

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the mulberry trees in her garden, recalling peaceful mornings spent with her late husband and pets. She then shares a vivid, nostalgic memory of a mulberry orchard in Tehran from her past, connecting it to a present-day encounter.

Jun 24, 2020

A Moose! A Moose!

Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous misunderstanding with her Polish cleaner, Aga, who mistook a field mouse for a ‘moose’ in the dining room. The story culminates in Grandma Stella’s husband, Peter, being called home from court to deal with the tiny intruder.

Jun 20, 2020

Welcome to the Family, Julie Dear

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the fascinating story of her uncles’ immigration, a family rift caused by marriage outside their faith, and the eventual, heartwarming reunion with a long-lost cousin, Julie. She reflects on family ties, identity, and the enduring power of connection.

Jun 17, 2020

A Quiet Morning’s Embrace

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a peaceful early morning experience, from the quiet solitude before dawn to the joyful awakening with the birds.

Jun 12, 2020

The Last Hour of Peter’s Life

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the tragic day five years prior when her husband, Peter, unexpectedly passed away. She vividly recounts the events leading up to his death and expresses her enduring grief and the pain of his final moments being spent alone.

Jun 1, 2020

A Morning’s Awakening

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the beauty of a summer morning, from the nightbird’s song to the awakening of the garden and the world around her. She contemplates the cyclical nature of life and the importance of cherishing our precious Earth.

May 30, 2020

The Perfect Covid Poem

Poetry
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a humorous and relatable poem reflecting on the daily struggles, isolation, and unexpected moments of gratitude experienced during the COVID-19 pandemic. She muses on aging, grocery runs, and the importance of family and friends.

May 28, 2020

Melancholia

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on feelings of melancholy, recalling vivid childhood memories, the comfort of a family song, and the profound love and loss experienced throughout her life, particularly her marriage to Peter.

May 22, 2020

The Gramophone

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella fondly recalls her childhood relationship with her Uncle Albert, who spoiled her and introduced her to the joy of dance and music through his gramophone.

May 12, 2020

A Florida Snowstorm and Family Encounters

Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable trip to Florida with Peter, where they encountered an unexpected snowstorm in Jacksonville and later met Peter’s extended family, including the comically outrageous Aunt Frannie.

May 10, 2020

Mother’s Day in the Age of the Pandemic

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the varied experiences of Mother’s Day during the pandemic, observing the loneliness of an elderly woman, the grief of a family, the struggles of a healthcare worker, and the isolation of a young child.

May 10, 2020

Winter’s End

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella beautifully describes the slow, reluctant departure of winter and the vibrant, joyful awakening of her garden with the arrival of spring. She captures the essence of nature’s renewal through vivid imagery of blossoms, butterflies, and birds.

May 5, 2020

The Aunties

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella beautifully recounts the cherished bond among a small group of “aunties” in Iran, detailing their weekly gatherings, shared meals, and the enduring familial closeness that extended through generations. She reflects on the warmth of these traditions and how they shaped her childhood.

Apr 28, 2020

Blessings

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on a grey morning, finding joy in the return of her outdoor cats and the blossoming nature around her. She contemplates the blessings of her life, cherishing family, friendships, and the love she received.

Apr 26, 2020

The Man From Africa

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a chilly winter evening in Brooklyn with her husband Peter and sister, where she encountered an African street vendor. Years later, during the Coronavirus pandemic, she finds the pendant she bought from him, prompting a reflection on his life and struggles.

Apr 17, 2020

Dreaming of Days Gone By

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Poetry

Grandma Stella reflects on cherished memories of a loved one, longing for their presence amidst a world changed by disease. Her poignant words express grief and a deep yearning for the past.

Apr 15, 2020

The Hat

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her long-held desire for a particular hat from Bloomingdale’s, the patience it took to acquire it, and the humorous reactions of her husband, Peter, to her beloved accessory. It’s a charming reflection on personal style and enduring affection for an object.

Apr 13, 2020

Losing Our Beloved Aaron Abraham

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound loss of her beloved Rabbi Aaron Abraham, grappling with the inability to mourn publicly during a pandemic and finding solace in his quiet passing.

Apr 10, 2020

Coronavirus and Passover

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the strange and frightening times of the coronavirus pandemic, sharing observations about its impact on daily life and the unexpected blessings of a virtual Passover Seder with her extended family across different time zones.

Apr 8, 2020

Grandma Stella’s Corona Common Sense

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella, a retired respiratory therapist, shares common-sense wisdom for managing COVID-19 symptoms at home, aiming to help people avoid hospitalization. She offers practical advice based on over 40 years of experience.

Apr 3, 2020

Rain and Music’s Lullaby

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella recounts a night where she was awakened by the sound of classical music and a furious rainstorm. She finds comfort in their gentle duet, eventually drifting back to sleep to their soothing lullaby.

Apr 1, 2020

Spring

Nature & Seasons
Poetry
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella beautifully captures the essence of spring’s arrival, describing the gentle awakening of nature after winter’s reluctant departure.

Mar 31, 2020

Bouyi

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella shares a tender childhood memory of sitting on her grandfather Bouyi’s lap and reflects on a beloved painting left behind during the revolution, wondering about its fate.

Mar 30, 2020

My Cousin Edmond

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on her cousin Edmond, sharing humorous anecdotes from their youth in Tehran and New York, and recalling his dignified battle with cancer. She cherishes his memory and the warmth he brought to their family.

Mar 22, 2020

Driving Through Brooklyn on a Snowy Night

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable snowy night drive through Brooklyn with Peter, revisiting his childhood neighborhood and sharing poignant family stories, which culminates in an unexpected encounter with a local policeman.

Mar 15, 2020

Memories of Past Purims

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a nostalgic glimpse into her childhood, recalling the vibrant celebrations of Purim in Tehran many years ago.

Mar 9, 2020

The Heartlessness of Man

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a disturbing story shared by her manicurist about a couple who abandoned their sick cat, leading her to reflect on the decline of compassion and integrity in society. She contrasts this with her own experience of feeding a new stray cat.

Mar 5, 2020

The Accidental Early Morning Text

Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous morning mix-up when she accidentally sent a video to Andrea instead of Kelly. The exchange that followed highlights the perils of early morning texting and the importance of a phone’s mute mode.

Mar 3, 2020

The Lost Bills and Peter’s Gentle Heart

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a poignant Mother’s Day memory with her late husband, Peter, involving a lost sum of money and his gentle, understanding reaction. She reflects on his loving nature and their shared joy in gardening.

Feb 26, 2020

Tehran Winters: Preserving Memories and Traditions

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella fondly recalls her childhood in Tehran, detailing the traditional methods her family used to preserve fruits and vegetables for winter, from making fruit leather and tomato paste to threading okra. She also shares cherished memories of family gatherings, homemade sherbets, and storytelling around a korsi.

Feb 24, 2020

Hospital Reflections and Peter’s Presence

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts two memorable, albeit challenging, visits to Lennox Hill Hospital, reflecting on the contrasting experiences and the enduring presence of her beloved Peter.

Feb 16, 2020

Kiryat Ono: A Tapestry of Memories

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her youth in Kiryat Ono, Israel, recalling the vibrant orange groves, the warmth of her Khaloo Aboud and Saida’s home, and the special bond she shared with Saida. She vividly describes the simple times, family gatherings, and the unique charm of the nascent State of Israel.

Feb 3, 2020

PITY THE NATION

Poetry
Reflections on Life

In this powerful poem, Grandma Stella shares Lawrence Ferlinghetti’s adaptation of Khalil Gibran’s work, reflecting on the state of a nation and its people. It serves as a poignant commentary on leadership, freedom, and societal values.

Feb 3, 2020

Nine Essential Thoughts to Ponder

Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a collection of nine witty and thought-provoking observations on life, death, relationships, and modern society. Her musings offer a humorous and cynical perspective on various aspects of the human experience.

Jan 29, 2020

The Concentration Camp Survivors

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares three poignant anecdotes about Holocaust survivors she encountered, reflecting on their immense suffering, resilience, and the enduring impact of their experiences.

Jan 28, 2020

Vera’s Uncle

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts a poignant story told to her by a boarding school friend, Vera, about her family’s escape from Czechoslovakia before WWII and the miraculous reunion of Vera’s father with his brother after the war through a newsreel.

Jan 28, 2020

Timolena’s Return

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts her emotional journey with the stray cats she has been feeding, from their mysterious disappearance to the joyful surprise of one cat’s return.

Jan 26, 2020

Content Just Being Us

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Sunday, a challenging book, and a cherished memory with Peter, culminating in an unexpected encounter at a supermarket that brings a sense of contentment and self-worth.

Jan 23, 2020

The Old Clock

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished old clock, a silent witness to her life’s journey, including her family’s move from Iran and the passage of time. She connects the clock’s steady rhythm to the changing seasons and the cycle of life, finding peace in its constant presence.

Jan 23, 2020

The Unwanted Wig

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts her experience with a fashionable wig in 1970s Tehran, which became a source of contention with her ex-husband. She shares how the wig eventually found new life before being retired.

Jan 23, 2020

The Café

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Love & Romance

Grandma Stella fondly recalls her cherished morning routine with her husband, Peter, involving a walk to a warm café and the pleasant interactions they shared. She reflects on the simple joys and contentment of their life together.

Jan 18, 2020

A Morning Lullaby

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a peaceful morning musing, describing her awakening to classical music and the sight of the rising sun. She finds comfort in the quiet moments and the presence of her beloved pets.

Jan 13, 2020

Picking Up Papa

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid memory from her youth when she was sent to pick up her father from his office. She describes the cultural differences between her family’s westernized lifestyle and the traditional business district, and observes her father’s shrewd negotiation tactics.

Jan 13, 2020

A Sunday Morning

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful Sunday morning, enjoying a beloved book and recalling cherished memories of her dear friend, Pnina. She finds comfort in reading and the soothing sound of rain.

Jan 12, 2020

Pnina, Buddenbrook, and Rainy Mornings

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished friendship with Pnina, who gifted her a new copy of the beloved book “Buddenbrook” after her old one fell apart. She fondly recalls their shared love for books, their outings, and the comfort of a quiet, rainy Sunday morning.

Jan 12, 2020

Piano Practice in the Shadow of Revolution

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella vividly recalls her childhood piano lessons in a silent, dim salon. She describes how the terrifying news of the 1958 Iraqi revolution and the brutal assassination of King Faisel, coupled with the loss of her grandfather, filled her practice sessions with fear and haunting images.

Jan 10, 2020

Transitions

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound grief of losing her husband, contrasting it with the burgeoning joy she feels as her son finds love and prepares to start his own family. She shares her heartfelt prayers and wishes for his happiness.

Jan 10, 2020

Bailey’s Irish Cream Mini Cheesecakes

Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella shares her delightful recipe for mini cheesecakes, featuring a rich Oreo crust and a creamy Bailey’s Irish Cream filling, topped with a decadent ganache glaze.

Jan 7, 2020

The Devoted Wife

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the unwavering devotion of a neighbor caring for her ailing husband, pondering the nature of love and the ‘what ifs’ of life amidst personal challenges and neighborhood changes.

Jan 7, 2020

A Quiet New Year’s Eve

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her profound grief and loneliness during New Year’s Eve, missing her late husband Peter, and finding solace only in her dogs and a book.

Jan 4, 2020

A Magical Morning with Crêpe Suzette

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella fondly recalls a serene winter morning spent making crêpe Suzette with her beloved husband, Peter, a memory that brings her warmth and joy. She cherishes the quiet intimacy and deep love shared during their last winter together.

Dec 31, 2019

Our Mother Hen, Mona Durgana

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the life and passing of Mona Durgana, a beloved figure in her congregation who served with unwavering dedication and a heart of gold. She fondly remembers Mona’s tireless efforts in preparing meals and caring for everyone, especially the rabbi and children.

Dec 24, 2019

The Friday Night Dates

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella beautifully recounts the cherished tradition of Friday night dates with her husband, Peter, sharing memories of romantic evenings, special outings, and their shared love for art and adventure.

Dec 21, 2019

Melancholy Morning, Chopin’s Comfort

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a morning of profound grief, missing her beloved Peter, and finds a moment of peace and a sense of purpose through a Chopin piece.

Dec 15, 2019

Snowflakes and Memories

Loss & Grief
Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet, snowy morning, sipping tea and remembering her late husband, Peter, and the joy they shared. She finds comfort in her memories despite the sadness of his absence during the holidays.

Dec 11, 2019

The Christmas Cake That Never Was

Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous Christmas tale from her early years in New York, where her carefully prepared fruitcake met an unexpected fate at the paws of a pampered Dalmatian named Seaweed. It’s a story of friendship, culinary mishaps, and finding joy in unexpected turns.

Dec 10, 2019

Driving Papa in Italy

Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable summer trip to Italy with her father, where she navigated the challenging Italian autostrade and embarked on an unexpected adventure that led them across the Swiss border.

Dec 7, 2019

The Abandoned Prince

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable encounter at her daughter’s wedding, where she met a young man who shared the poignant story of his father’s abandonment. This deeply personal narrative explores themes of loss, family, and the lasting impact of childhood pain.

Dec 3, 2019

Peter, Sizzlers, and Mother

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous evening when her husband, Peter, overindulged at a Sizzlers restaurant, leading to a severe stomach ache. Despite her warnings, he only listened to his mother’s stern advice, much to Grandma Stella’s amusement.

Nov 24, 2019

Kafka and the Lost Doll

Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a touching anecdote about the renowned author Franz Kafka, who helped a young girl cope with the loss of her favorite doll by writing her letters about its adventures. The story beautifully illustrates the enduring power of love and imagination.

Nov 23, 2019

The Free Spirit of Foudie

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her cherished friendship with Foudie, a kind and free-spirited man whose life was tragically cut short amidst political turmoil in their home country. She reflects on his enduring spirit and the comfort she finds in believing his soul is now free.

Nov 13, 2019

Orange Liqueur

Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella shares her simple yet delightful recipe for homemade orange liqueur, a process that takes 11 weeks to age to perfection.

Nov 11, 2019

A Dog Called Bingo

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the heartwarming and heartbreaking story of Bingo, a beloved shepherd dog who joined her family in Tehran, detailing his loyalty, heroism, and the profound grief felt at his loss. This story beautifully captures the deep bond between a family and their pet, set against the backdrop of life in Iran.

Nov 8, 2019

Rimsky Korsakov and Shahrazad on a Snowy Friday Morning

Childhood Memories
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid childhood memory of listening to Rimsky Korsakov’s Shahrazad on a snowy Friday morning in Tehran, imagining herself transported into the tales of One Thousand and One Nights.

Nov 4, 2019

Thoughts On An October Morning

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound role classical music has played throughout her life, weaving together poignant memories of solace during difficult times, the joy of family, and cherished moments from her childhood.

Oct 30, 2019

A Special Treat

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares heartwarming memories of her grandson Teal’s visits to New York, from feeding birds at the lake and meeting the cast of “The Lion King” to his current role as her caring companion.

Oct 20, 2019

Reveries

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on a chilly autumn morning, recalling cherished memories of her father, mother, and husband, Peter. She shares her unique perspective on loss and the enduring presence of loved ones through memory and imagination.

Oct 20, 2019

Trump Throws the Kurds to the Wolves

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella expresses her profound horror and outrage after witnessing a video depicting atrocities against the Kurds, directly linking the events to President Trump’s policies. She questions the compassion of those who support him and urges others to recognize the gravity of the situation.

Oct 16, 2019

Why? Why? Why?

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella reflects on a recent incident of antisemitism, sharing her outrage and recounting personal experiences with prejudice, from a co-worker’s misguided compliment to a shocking encounter with a “friend” and a memorable childhood birthday party incident involving a German guest. She questions the persistence of hatred and reaffirms the Jewish community’s contributions and humanity.

Oct 4, 2019

The Turkey Farm

Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable Rosh Hashanah drive with her beloved Peter, leading them to a charming turkey farm and restaurant filled with delightful animal encounters and a delicious meal. She reflects on the cherished memories of their time together.

Oct 2, 2019

Our Magical Road

Nature & Seasons
Childhood Memories
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a beautiful road she called “the magical road” for the children in her life, noting how its beauty changes with the seasons. She shares how, even after forty years, those children, now adults, still cherish the memory of their magical road.

Sep 29, 2019

The Magic Road

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on a charming, timeless road that has brought serenity to her and generations of children. She observes its seasonal changes and enduring magic, noting how it remains untouched by the passage of time.

Sep 29, 2019

The Free TV

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts the culture shock of moving to a new country, from advertising norms to news consumption, and shares a humorous anecdote about her children’s determined quest for their own television.

Sep 27, 2019

Papa, Where Do Babies Come From?

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable childhood experience of learning about the birds and the bees from her father, and later, how she crafted her own gentle explanation for her children.

Sep 24, 2019

Malice or Sheer Unhappiness

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound unhappiness caused by her son’s accusations of malice and his unkind behavior. She expresses her deep pain and longing for peace and love, especially in a heartfelt address to her deceased son, Peter.

Sep 22, 2019

Getting Up On The Wrong Side Of The Bed

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a challenging morning that started with good intentions but quickly devolved into a sticky, messy ordeal involving broken jam jars, a sore back, and a momentary fear of Alzheimer’s, all before she could even enjoy her tea. Despite the chaos, she finds humor and ends with heartfelt good wishes.

Sep 16, 2019

The Dream of Darband

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid dream that transports her back to her childhood in Tehran, experiencing the sights, sounds, and tastes of a magical summer night in Darband, before waking to the familiar demands of her dogs.

Sep 14, 2019

The Best Lemon Bars

Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella shares her beloved recipe for the best lemon bars, featuring a buttery crust and a tangy, creamy lemon filling. This delightful dessert is perfect for any occasion.

Sep 12, 2019

A Quiet Morning, A Lingering Memory

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet morning spent feeding cats and drinking tea, which brings back poignant memories of her beloved Peter and the mornings they shared together.

Sep 8, 2019

Quiet Evenings with My Dogs

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella reflects on the quiet evenings as seasons change, finding comfort in her tea ritual and the companionship of her dogs, Ebony and Picasso.

Sep 7, 2019

A Morning to Reminisce

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful early morning, observing her sleeping pets and the quiet world outside while enjoying a cup of tea.

Sep 6, 2019

Passover in Los Angeles and The Lace Shop Owner in Santa Barbara

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable Passover celebration with her parents and extended family in Los Angeles, followed by a delightful day trip to Santa Barbara where she and Peter encountered an unforgettable lace shop owner. This story beautifully captures family love and a unique human connection.

Sep 5, 2019

A Bicycle for a Rocking Chair

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a charming story about her husband Peter’s love for bicycles and a unique trade he made with a Hungarian furniture restorer. It highlights his generosity and a sweet memory.

Sep 3, 2019

Handicapped Parking

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the frustration of people misusing handicapped parking spots, recalling a poignant memory of her mother’s incapacitation and the challenges they faced.

Sep 2, 2019

Tehran’s Blue Yoghurt Bowls

Childhood Memories
Recipes & Food Stories
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella fondly recalls the vibrant blue ceramic bowls of creamy yogurt sold in Tehran, a refreshing treat enjoyed during hot summer afternoons and spring.

Aug 30, 2019

A Sweet Welcome to the New Year

Daily Musings
Recipes & Food Stories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the changing seasons, the crisp autumn air, and her cherished tradition of making apple jam for Rosh Hashanah, a practice she has upheld for over fifty years.

Aug 28, 2019

In My Solitude

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her life, from a difficult first marriage and the joy of her children to finding her soulmate, Peter, and the profound grief after his sudden loss.

Aug 24, 2019

Saturday Morning Musings

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Saturday morning, observing the chilly air, a distant crow, and her dogs’ eagerness for the weekend. She describes the start of a new weekend with classical music and a cup of tea.

Aug 24, 2019

The Sign of a Beautiful Person

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a profound observation about the true nature of a beautiful person, highlighting their ability to perceive beauty in others.

Aug 24, 2019

A Perfect Day Interrupted

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella describes a day of unexpected peace after weeks of construction noise, only for the tranquility to be shattered by the return of the noisy crew. She shares her morning routine with her beloved pets, Ebony and Picasso, and her brief enjoyment of a quiet porch.

Aug 23, 2019

Glaudeanna

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts a poignant childhood memory of a friend, Glaudeanna, and the tragic impact of her early death on her parents, particularly the family’s piano teacher, M. Baiano.

Aug 21, 2019

A Quiet Sunday Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful Sunday morning in August, observing the quiet awakening of the world around her, from humming birds to rustling leaves and neighborhood activities. She shares her gentle observations and fond memories.

Aug 17, 2019

The $85 Tip

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Loss & Grief

On what would have been his birthday, Grandma Stella shares a humorous memory of a trip to Los Angeles with her late husband, Peter, reflecting on their joyful times together and the enduring love they shared.

Aug 9, 2019

Childhood Echoes on Khiaban Pahlavi

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a rich tapestry of childhood memories from Tehran, recalling her family’s home near the Russian Embassy, the kindness shown to refugees, and enchanting evenings at Cafe Shahrdari.

Aug 8, 2019

The Beauty of a Woman

Poetry
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a profound poem attributed to Audrey Hepburn, reflecting on the true essence of a woman’s beauty beyond superficial appearances. It offers timeless wisdom on kindness, empathy, and self-love.

Aug 7, 2019

The Oasis of Los Angeles

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella recounts the traumatic experience of fleeing Iran and the initial hostility faced in New York, contrasting it with the warm embrace and vibrant Iranian community she found in Los Angeles. She reflects on the journey to finding a true sense of home and belonging for her family.

Jul 31, 2019

Memories of Bretton Woods

Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure
Love & Romance

Grandma Stella fondly recalls a memorable long weekend getaway to the Mount Washington Hotel at Bretton Woods with her beloved Peter, filled with classical music, quaint village strolls, and shared moments of blissful relaxation.

Jul 25, 2019

Grandma Stella, Teal, and the Green Snake

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable summer day babysitting her grandson, Teal, and his friend, when they brought her a green snake. The story weaves in cherished memories of making jam and singing lullabies, reflecting on how the young live for new adventures while the old cherish their past.

Jul 21, 2019

Jones Beach Memories

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella shares cherished memories of Jones Beach with her beloved husband, Peter, from their first date to their last days together, reflecting on his special qualities and her enduring love.

Jul 15, 2019

Ahmed

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts the poignant life story of Ahmed, a eunuch who faced numerous hardships from a young age but found moments of kindness and belonging, ultimately seeking independence.

Jul 12, 2019

Nargess: A Lifetime of Loyalty and Loss

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts the poignant life story of Nargess, a beloved household helper in Iran, detailing her personal tragedies, unwavering loyalty, and the profound impact of the Iranian Revolution on their lives.

Jul 11, 2019

A Summer Morning in Old Tehran

Childhood Memories
Daily Musings
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella reflects on a muggy Fourth of July morning, which transports her back to a vibrant childhood summer morning in Tehran, filled with sensory details of bustling shops and refreshing activities.

Jul 6, 2019

A Moment in Time

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on the recent passing of her cousin Rudy, recalling their shared grief and a poignant childhood memory from their time as young students in England, far from home.

Jul 1, 2019

Amalia’s Journey

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella shares a poignant story about a single mother’s unwavering dedication and sacrifice for her daughter, Amalia, from their humble beginnings to Amalia’s college graduation, and the unexpected challenges they face together.

Jun 24, 2019

Vivaldi’s Winter Journey

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares her unique interpretation of Vivaldi’s ‘Summer’ movement as a winter scene, weaving in memories of her travels with Peter and an imagined story of a young man in Milano. She reflects on how music can transport us and evoke personal narratives.

Jun 21, 2019

Khasegari: The Betrothal

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the traditional betrothal of young Minou, an eleven-year-old girl whose life takes an unexpected turn when her father arranges her marriage. This poignant story explores cultural customs, family dynamics, and a young girl’s emotional journey into womanhood.

Jun 20, 2019

An Autumn Sunday Drive

Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable autumn Sunday drive with her beloved husband, Peter, to Captree, reflecting on their shared joy and a humorous, albeit nauseating, past fishing trip.

Jun 19, 2019

Fifty Dollars

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts a poignant experience in a small village salon, where a young woman facing chemotherapy receives a cold and overpriced service, leaving Grandma Stella to reflect on human cruelty and compassion.

Jun 9, 2019

Tristesse

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the profound melancholy she feels on the fourth anniversary of her beloved husband Peter’s passing, finding solace and sorrow in shared memories of their garden and quiet mornings.

Jun 1, 2019

Winter, Fridays in Tehran

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella fondly recalls the simple joys and cherished traditions of Fridays during her childhood in Tehran, from leisurely breakfasts and family outings to special meals and evening gatherings. She reflects on the enduring sense of love and protection from those times.

May 30, 2019

What is Happiness?

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella reflects on the true meaning of everyday happiness, sharing cherished memories from her childhood and adult life that bring her profound joy. She emphasizes that these simple, often overlooked moments are more precious than any material possession.

May 27, 2019

Addie’s Journey to Serenity

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella recounts the poignant story of Addie, a social worker who overcame a traumatic past, finding moments of peace and connection through Stella and Peter, and ultimately finding her eternal resting place in a serene natural setting.

May 2, 2019

A Stormy Sunday

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

On a stormy Sunday, Grandma Stella reflects on the profound grief of losing her husband, Peter, especially during holidays, while finding solace in memories and the cyclical nature of life and seasons.

Apr 28, 2019

My Heart Inflamed

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares her profound anger and frustration after encountering an anti-Israel cartoon online. She reflects on her family’s history of displacement due to anti-Semitism and challenges the prevailing narratives about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

Apr 27, 2019

The Flower Vendor

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the story of a hardworking Mexican flower vendor displaced by a new shop owner, reflecting on themes of fairness and livelihood. She expresses her frustration with the new vendor’s inconsiderate behavior and her continued support for small, friendly businesses.

Apr 19, 2019

Close Your Eyes, What Do You See?

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming reflection on a magical phrase she used with her children while driving home, which later inspired stories for her grandson. This cherished memory resurfaced years later, bringing a smile to her face.

Apr 12, 2019

Close Your Eyes…

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a magical phrase she used with her children while driving home in Tehran, which later evolved into enchanting fairy stories with her grandson, Teal, in Boulder, highlighting the enduring power of imagination and family bonds.

Apr 12, 2019

The Fairies’ Enduring Magic

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Poetry

Grandma Stella recounts a cherished tradition of telling her children about the magical city lights, a tradition that later evolved with her grandson Teal and his garden fairies, culminating in a nostalgic reflection on these beloved memories.

Apr 12, 2019

Tales of My Father’s Youth

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella shares two poignant and humorous stories from her father’s rebellious youth, detailing his defiance against his strict, religious father and his clever act of protest during a Passover Seder.

Apr 10, 2019

Maximillian’s Breakfast Feast

Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella meticulously prepares a special Saturday morning breakfast for Peter, complete with champagne and fresh pastries. However, their beloved dog, Maximillian, has other plans for the feast.

Apr 8, 2019

Khatoon’s Unbreakable Love and a Father’s Fury

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella shares a poignant memory from her childhood home in Iran, recounting the harrowing story of Khatoon, a housemaid who, after immense loss, fought to save her last surviving child with the unexpected, forceful support of Grandma Stella’s father.

Apr 5, 2019

Early Mornings at Dingmans Falls

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella fondly recalls early morning summer weekend trips to Dingmans Falls, Pennsylvania, with her husband Peter and their boys. She describes the peaceful start to their days, preparing breakfast and coffee for the family.

Mar 22, 2019

No Greek Islands for You!

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts her post-boarding school desire for independence and her parents’ disapproval, leading to her being left alone to manage the household. She humorously describes her disastrous first attempt at cooking chicken and cleaning, which ultimately solidified her preference for a carefree life over domestic duties.

Mar 22, 2019

A Message of Love to Nancy

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella writes a heartfelt letter to Nancy, expressing her deep sorrow upon learning about Nancy’s cancer recurrence and offering her love and support despite past differences.

Mar 13, 2019

A Bureaucratic Rigmarole

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous yet frustrating experience from 1975 Tehran, where she navigated a labyrinthine bureaucracy to replace her lost ID card. Her story highlights the universal nature of bureaucratic inefficiency and the absurdity of official processes.

Mar 4, 2019

The Madman On The Plane

Humor & Anecdotes
Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous misunderstanding at an airport involving a man, a delayed flight, and the then-uncommon sight of a cell phone. She and Peter initially feared the man was unstable, only to discover a surprising truth.

Mar 3, 2019

The Joyous Traditions of Now Ruz

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares a vivid and heartwarming account of Now Ruz, the Persian New Year, detailing the elaborate preparations, family gatherings, traditional foods, and outdoor celebrations that mark this joyous month-long festival of spring.

Feb 18, 2019

Ten Minutes Late!

Childhood Memories
Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts her childhood struggles with punctuality due to her sister’s slow eating habits, which led to daily detentions. She vividly describes her eventual, humorous act of defiance against her strict teacher, Miss Sahakian.

Feb 13, 2019

Steak Tartare in Zakopane

Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her numerous trips to Poland with her husband, Peter, as he advised a wealthy Polish entrepreneur. She shares vivid descriptions of Zakopane, reflections on Poland’s somber history, and a memorable, albeit challenging, dinner party experience featuring a surprising local delicacy.

Feb 11, 2019

William and President Reagan

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the tragic story of William, a bright young man from the South who struggled with loneliness and mental health after moving to New York City for college. His journey led him to homelessness and a profound psychological abyss, culminating in a trial where he spoke only of President Reagan.

Jan 31, 2019

The Siren of Ferrara’s

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable and humorous evening with her husband Peter and a friend in Greenwich Village, culminating in a delightful and unexpected observation at the famous Ferrara’s pastry shop.

Jan 23, 2019

A Childhood in Papa’s Office

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her childhood summers, split between the Club Gorgan and her father’s office, where she took on the important task of tracking stocks and later tutoring a young boy named Mehdi, whose journey she followed with pride until the Iranian Revolution.

Jan 22, 2019

The Exercise Class

Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous misunderstanding at a senior exercise class, where a haughty woman is initially mistaken for the instructor, much to the dismay of the attendees.

Jan 13, 2019

The Red-Haired Beggar Girls, or A Matter of Fate

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on her time in Iran, recalling her observations of three red-haired beggar girls she used to feed and musing on their fate after the revolution forced her family to leave the country.

Jan 10, 2019

The Friendship of Max and Sasha

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts the heartwarming story of how a tiny kitten named Sasha joined her family, forming an inseparable bond with their dog, Max, and bringing joy and laughter through their mischievous escapades, until her eventual, heartbreaking disappearance.

Jan 2, 2019

Old Soul

Poetry
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

In this evocative poem, Grandma Stella explores the timeless essence of an “old soul,” intertwining it with the beauty of nature and the eternal spirit of life. She invites readers to connect with this spirit through natural elements and the passage of time.

Jan 1, 2019

The French Wife

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable incident involving her elegant French-speaking mother at a hair salon in Tehran, leading to a humorous family anecdote with her father.

Dec 29, 2018

The Saga of Trinity

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the long and often frustrating professional relationship her husband, Peter, had with a demanding client named Trinity, a woman who built her fortune through multiple divorces. The story culminates in Grandma Stella’s fierce defense of Peter during a personal crisis.

Dec 24, 2018

Stella by Starlight

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming story about receiving a musical dedication from her nephew, Jay, which brings back cherished memories of her late husband, Peter, and their life together.

Dec 23, 2018

A Christmas Getaway

Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a spontaneous post-Christmas road trip with her husband, Peter, filled with quaint discoveries, antique shop adventures, and a memorable German dinner, culminating in a cherished memory.

Dec 19, 2018

The Crown Upon My Head

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the enduring pain of widowhood, especially during the holiday season, and recounts the devastating day she lost her beloved husband, Peter, and the profound void he left behind.

Dec 12, 2018

A Journey to the End of Life

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the heartbreaking twelve-year decline of her mother after a brain tumor operation, and the subsequent impact on her father and the entire family. It’s a poignant reflection on loss, dignity, and the enduring power of family love.

Dec 4, 2018

A Winter’s Day with Peter

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a cherished memory of a snowy day spent with her late husband, Peter, at their favorite bookstore, reflecting on their beautiful life together.

Dec 3, 2018

The Turtledove’s Shower

Childhood Memories
Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming memory of her childhood, triggered by observing a turtledove bathing in the rain. She recalls her own youthful joy in the rain and her mother’s gentle chiding.

Nov 25, 2018

A Perfect World

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella fondly recalls a serene winter evening spent with her beloved Peter, reflecting on their beautiful life together and expressing deep gratitude for his love.

Nov 16, 2018

Walk Through the Woods and Other Reminiscences

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares heartwarming reminiscences, from peaceful walks in the woods with Peter to unexpected encounters with strangers that revealed the kindness and complexity of human nature. She reflects on moments of generosity, trust, and understanding.

Nov 10, 2018

Autumn’s Dance

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the beauty of autumn, observing her dogs playing in the fallen leaves and the vibrant life around her as winter approaches. She finds magic and joy in the season’s fleeting moments.

Nov 7, 2018

The Joy of Falling Leaves

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a beautiful autumn day, observing her dogs playing joyfully in the fallen leaves and finding magic in the season’s fleeting beauty.

Nov 7, 2018

A Matter of a Slight Argument

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a rare disagreement with her beloved husband, Peter, over a salmon dinner. The argument escalates into a dramatic evening where Stella gets lost in a storm, only for Peter to lovingly guide her home, reminding them both of the preciousness of their bond.

Oct 23, 2018

How I Met Peter

Love & Romance
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the serendipitous and challenging story of how she met her beloved husband, Peter, amidst a complicated real estate deal and personal struggles. Their bond grew through shared experiences and mutual respect, leading to a loving marriage.

Oct 18, 2018

Ab Gusht: A Taste of Autumn and Memories

Recipes & Food Stories
Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares a heartwarming story about the Persian stew, Ab Gusht, recalling its humble origins in Tehran and the comfort it brings on a chilly autumn day, culminating in a shared meal with her son.

Oct 14, 2018

The Red Cardinal

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the difficult final years of her mother’s life and how, after her passing, she found comfort and a sense of her mother’s enduring spirit in the regular visits of a red cardinal.

Oct 11, 2018

The Legend of Yemma

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares the remarkable story of her great-grandmother, Yemma, a woman who became a widow and mother at twelve, built a synagogue, and lived a life of quiet dignity, leaving behind a vast and loving family. This piece also includes a humorous anecdote about Yemma’s cousin, Aziza.

Oct 6, 2018

Khala Rosa and Her Trip to Beirut

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a cherished childhood memory of visiting her great aunt and uncle in Tehran, where warm hospitality and lively conversations were a daily ritual. She shares a particularly amusing anecdote about her great aunt’s unforgettable trip to Beirut and a surprising culinary discovery.

Oct 5, 2018

A Winter’s Walk and a Mother’s Terror

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a harrowing winter walk around Oakland Lake where her playful dog, Max, falls through the ice. Her son, Kelly, bravely rescues him, leaving Grandma Stella overwhelmed with terror and then immense relief.

Sep 28, 2018

The Unexpected Kindness of Aunty Hannah’s Family

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her unexpected move to a boarding school in England as a young girl and the profound kindness of her great-uncle’s widow and her family, who became her cherished adopted family in a foreign land.

Sep 20, 2018

The High Holy Days Are Here Once More

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the High Holy Days, finding solace in a myrtle tree and grappling with the profound grief of her husband Peter’s absence. She shares her heartfelt prayers for loved ones and for peace during this auspicious time.

Sep 12, 2018

The Turtledoves

Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the universal nature of grief, connecting her own profound loss of her beloved Peter to the pain of abandoned dogs and a grieving turtledove she once encountered.

Sep 8, 2018

Dancing Beneath the Stars in Darband

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reminisces about her cherished memories of Darband, a beloved mountain retreat in Iran, recalling family outings, delicious food, and dancing under the stars before the revolution changed everything. She reflects on these magical times with a mix of joy and wistful nostalgia.

Aug 18, 2018

Memories of Rosh Hashanahs of Years Past

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished Rosh Hashanah traditions, from preparing special foods like apple jam to hosting large gatherings of family, friends, and even strangers. She shares humorous anecdotes and the deep satisfaction of sharing joy and blessings during the holidays.

Aug 8, 2018

The Trousseau and Other Reminiscences

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares vivid childhood memories of growing up in Tehran, contrasting her family’s modern lifestyle with the traditional customs of the city’s southern district. She reflects on cultural differences, the joy of a bride’s trousseau procession, and the drastic societal changes she has witnessed over the years.

Aug 2, 2018

A Walk to Lulu’s

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a morning walk to Lulu’s bakery, which brings back cherished memories of her late husband, Peter, and their shared routines and simple joys. She reflects on their happy life together and how she now finds comfort in those sweet memories.

Jul 30, 2018

The Day Our World Stood Still

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on the indelible memory of September 11, 2001, recounting her personal experience of the day’s terror and its lasting impact on her and her family. She shares her discomfort with the rebuilt site and the profound loss of innocence felt by many.

Jul 27, 2018

Peter’s Butterfly Bush

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella recounts the story of a special bush, initially planted by her late husband, Peter. After his passing, she finds solace and a renewed connection to him through the bush, which eventually reveals itself to be a butterfly bush.

Jul 24, 2018

Reflections on a Saturday Morning

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella shares her peaceful Saturday morning observations, from a young family and busy texters to the sounds of nature. She reflects on her deep love for literature, instilled by her father, and finds contentment and strength in her books, music, family, and home.

Jul 21, 2018

The Woman in Red

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid memory from nearly sixty years ago in Tehran, where she encountered a mysterious, dignified woman begging in Maidan Ferdowsi, sparking a lifelong wonder about her circumstances.

Jul 21, 2018

Wait Until Dark and My New Suit

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts watching the thriller “Wait Until Dark” and how it brought back a vivid, humorous memory of seeing the film in Tehran years ago. She describes the comical fear it instilled in her regarding her new suit and closet.

Jul 21, 2018

A Summer Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella describes a peaceful summer morning, waking to the sounds of rain and birds, and luxuriating in the gentle start of a new day.

Jul 17, 2018

Christmas Time in Ocean City

Travel & Adventure
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a peaceful winter trip to Ocean City with her husband, Peter, where they found relaxation and connection amidst the quiet off-season charm and the soothing sounds of the ocean.

Jul 15, 2018

A Neighbor’s Torment

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts two harrowing encounters with a troublesome neighbor, detailing the emotional distress and physical symptoms caused by the ongoing conflict and false accusations.

Jul 14, 2018

A Summer Morning

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a peaceful morning scene, waking to the gentle sounds of rain, a ceiling fan, and birdsong. She reflects on the beauty of starting a new day amidst nature’s symphony.

Jul 6, 2018

Heatwave on a Sunday Afternoon

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on a New York heatwave, finding joy in observing birds playing in sprinklers, and later, tending to her garden while remembering her late husband, Peter.

Jul 1, 2018

The Day of My Grandmother’s Funeral

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the bizarre and memorable day of her grandmother’s funeral, marked by the unexpected appearance of an estranged uncle and the peculiar behavior of the mourners. She reflects on the lasting impact of this surreal experience, even decades later.

Jun 29, 2018

Rocelia

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares the poignant story of Rocelia, a hardworking immigrant cleaning lady, whose life of hardship and resilience becomes a powerful commentary on compassion and the struggles faced by those seeking a better life.

Jun 28, 2018

Summer Tempest

Daily Musings
Nature & Seasons
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a stormy summer morning, from the initial sounds of thunder and rain to her peaceful, extended sleep and the quiet moments with her dogs. She reflects on the day’s strange weather and her unexpected indolence.

Jun 28, 2018

The Passage of Time

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella reflects on her journey from a war-torn country, the challenges of adapting to a new land, and how she transformed from a timid young mother into a strong protector of her family. She muses on the swift passage of time and the wisdom gained through life’s experiences.

Jun 26, 2018

Renewing the Marriage Vows

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a deeply moving experience attending a couple’s twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, where they renewed their vows, reflecting on their journey from humble beginnings to a prosperous life. It was a moment that left a lasting impression on her.

Jun 20, 2018

A Quiet Father’s Day

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Father’s Day, observing nature and remembering her beloved husband, Peter, who is deeply missed.

Jun 17, 2018

A Journey to Acceptance

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her journey of grief and acceptance after losing her beloved husband, Peter, finding solace in cherished memories and the simple joys of life.

Jun 7, 2018

The Visit

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid dream of her late husband, Peter, and the profound sense of peace and connection it brought her, three years after his passing.

Jun 2, 2018

Family Excursions

Family & Relationships
Travel & Adventure

Grandma Stella fondly recalls the early morning family trips she and Peter took with their boys, venturing to Pennsylvania for fruit picking and canoeing at the Delaware Water Gap.

Jun 1, 2018

In Memory of My Dear Peter

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Love & Romance

Grandma Stella shares a poignant reflection on the third anniversary of her beloved Peter’s passing, expressing her enduring love and grief through heartfelt verses.

Jun 1, 2018

The House in Douglas Manor

Reflections on Life
Daily Musings
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable real estate encounter in Douglas Manor, where a seemingly pleasant interaction took a shocking turn, revealing a deeply unsettling prejudice. This experience left a lasting impression, prompting her to reflect on the persistence of hatred.

May 24, 2018

Our Jones Beach Days

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on her cherished memories with her late husband, Peter, at Jones Beach, a place that held deep significance throughout their relationship, from their first date to their final days together.

May 20, 2018

The Fur Coat

Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts her youthful desire for a fur coat, the thrill of acquiring one, and the profound lesson she learned about true fulfillment. She also reflects on how her priorities have shifted with age and experience.

May 10, 2018

A Love That Endures

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Love & Romance

Grandma Stella shares a poignant collection of poems and personal reflections on the enduring love she holds for her late husband, Peter, and the profound grief she experiences in his absence.

May 1, 2018

Oreo, the Unforgettable Pet

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable visit to her sister’s unconventional home in Los Angeles, where she faced her greatest fear: a free-roaming pet rat named Oreo. This humorous anecdote details her struggles with the rodent and the family’s peculiar affection for it.

Apr 30, 2018

My Valiant Friend, Pnina

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a heartfelt tribute to her dear friend, Pnina, recounting their strong bond, Pnina’s vibrant personality, her courageous battle with cancer, and the lasting memories of their friendship.

Apr 23, 2018

Reawakening

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella shares a morning musing about her recovery from an injury, the comforting presence of her outdoor cats, and her journey through grief after Peter’s death, finding solace in nature and the gradual return of her beloved felines.

Apr 19, 2018

The Albatross Around My Neck

Childhood Memories
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts her childhood struggles with punctuality, caused by her sister’s slow eating, and the strict teacher, Miss Sahakian, who became her ‘albatross.’ She vividly describes the humorous and rebellious moment when she finally got her revenge.

Apr 17, 2018

The Unplanned Unadventure

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a stormy spring day that thwarted a planned ‘unadventure’ but led to a cozy day at home, culminating in a heartwarming, if messy, meal prepared by her husband, Peter.

Apr 16, 2018

Young Motherhood and Dr. Spock

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella reflects on her early days as a new mother, navigating the advice of Dr. Spock and the watchful eyes of her family, leading to a humorous and heartfelt realization about the challenges of parenting.

Apr 15, 2018

The Farce of Growing Old

Reflections on Life
Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the harsh realities of aging, the unexpected loss of her beloved husband, and the struggle to find meaning and dignity amidst physical decline and profound grief. She contrasts youthful expectations with the often-painful truth of later life.

Apr 13, 2018

A Celestial Orchestra

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid memory of a thunderstorm, finding wonder in the celestial display while comforting her frightened dog, Max, and sharing a quiet moment with her husband, Peter.

Apr 7, 2018

Daffodils and the Bliss of Solitude

Childhood Memories
Nature & Seasons
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid childhood memory of discovering a field of daffodils at her English boarding school, connecting the experience to Wordsworth’s poem and reflecting on the enduring joy of spring and youth.

Mar 30, 2018

A Neighborhood Disturbance

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a stressful afternoon when a parking dispute escalated into a confrontation with her neighbors, leaving her and her son, Kelly, shaken. She reflects on the ongoing issues with these neighbors and her desire for peace.

Mar 27, 2018

Remembering Papa and Mama

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her childhood, recalling the distinct personalities and influences of her Papa and Mama, from daily rituals to life lessons and cultural experiences. She expresses gratitude for the profound love and care they instilled in her and her sisters.

Mar 25, 2018

Our Wedding Day

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella reflects on her wedding day, which fell on Purim and the first day of spring, and expresses her enduring love and gratitude for her late husband, Peter.

Mar 20, 2018

Missing You…

Loss & Grief
Poetry
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella shares a poignant reflection on the quietude of her home and the deep yearning for a loved one’s return, expressing the profound sense of loss she feels.

Mar 18, 2018

Brisk Day, Warm Memories

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella recounts a brisk but sunny day, starting with her dogs’ impatience and leading to a trip to the post office and supermarket. Her errands spark vivid memories of her late husband, Peter, and cherished childhood meals, culminating in a reflection on a life filled with blessings.

Mar 14, 2018

Killing Two Birds With One Stone

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella muses on an innovative Danish initiative that simultaneously addresses homelessness and environmental waste, pondering if a similar approach could be adopted locally.

Mar 12, 2018

Our Summers Gone By

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Love & Romance

Grandma Stella beautifully recounts cherished summer evenings spent with her late husband, Peter, in their garden, reflecting on their idyllic life and the profound grief of his sudden passing, yet finding comfort in their enduring love and memories.

Mar 3, 2018

Raindrops and Reveries

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a rainy morning, finding comfort in the sound of raindrops and the joyful chirping of birds, which leads her to a sweet reverie of cherished moments with her late husband, Peter.

Mar 2, 2018

My Best Girl

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella fondly recalls the cherished routine and loving gestures of her late husband, Peter, reflecting on the enduring warmth of his love.

Mar 1, 2018

Peter’s Camaro

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts amusing anecdotes involving her husband Peter’s acquisition of a vintage Camaro sports car and the humorous reactions it elicited from both a police officer and her aunt.

Mar 1, 2018

A Trip to Titan

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a recent trip to her favorite Greek supermarket, Titan, in Astoria. The visit brings back cherished memories of past trips with her late husband, Peter, and highlights the store’s unique charm and customer service.

Feb 28, 2018

To My Peter

Loss & Grief
Poetry

In this poignant musing, Grandma Stella reflects on the passage of time and the enduring pain of loss, expressing her continued wait for a loved one who is forever gone.

Feb 28, 2018

The Shirazi Elder’s Wisdom: A Tradition of Welcome

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her early days as a newlywed in Shiraz, Iran, and how a wise elder’s invitation to celebrate the High Holy Days inspired a lifelong tradition of welcoming strangers to her own holiday table.

Feb 22, 2018

Snowfall

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful, snowy morning, recalling a cherished memory with Peter as they listened to the distant whistle of a train. This sound brought back sweet recollections of a lifetime of beautiful moments together.

Feb 17, 2018

The Suitor

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable encounter with a prospective suitor from her youth, a story prompted by a conversation with her friend Shama. She vividly describes the arranged meeting and the suitor’s shockingly boorish behavior.

Feb 16, 2018

The Crown on My Head

Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on her late husband Peter’s enduring support as she overcomes her fear of driving long distances. She finds strength in his memory, enabling her to accomplish tasks she once thought impossible.

Feb 11, 2018

A Winter Sunday in Tehran: Hamam and Kufteh Tabrizi

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Recipes & Food Stories

Grandma Stella recounts her childhood experiences in Tehran, detailing the weekly ritual of visiting the hamam with her sisters and Maryam Barbari, followed by a comforting meal of Kufteh Tabrizi at home.

Feb 7, 2018

Peter’s Smiling Sky

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a touching experience of visiting Peter’s grave, where the sun appeared as they approached and rain fell upon their departure, making her feel as though Peter was acknowledging their presence.

Feb 7, 2018

Peter’s Beloved Camaro

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts humorous anecdotes involving her husband Peter’s acquisition of an old Camaro sports car, including a memorable encounter with the police and her aunt’s reaction to riding in it.

Jan 29, 2018

Snowbound Memories

Family & Relationships
Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a memorable snowstorm that brought both confinement and unexpected joy, featuring her husband Peter and their pets, Max and Sasha.

Jan 22, 2018

The Joy of Remembering Peter

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella fondly recalls her late husband, Peter, and his joyful singing during dog baths and to their niece and nephews, reflecting on the love and happiness he brought into their lives.

Jan 15, 2018

The Tiff

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts a time she was upset with her husband, Peter, and got lost driving home in a storm. Despite their disagreement, Peter’s unwavering concern and guidance reminded her of his wonderful nature.

Dec 24, 2017

The Steadfast Companion

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the passage of time, personifying her old hallway clock as a steadfast companion that has witnessed her life’s journey, including her family’s move from Iran. She observes the autumn garden, contemplating the seasons and the continuous march of time.

Nov 5, 2017

A Day in the City

Daily Musings
Family & Relationships
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella recounts a long, traffic-filled ride home from the city, sharing conversations with fellow passengers and fondly recalling a humorous memory of her late husband, Peter.

Nov 1, 2017

The Supermarket Greeter

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on a kind supermarket greeter who loved classical music, pondering his life and the unfortunate incident of his stolen radio, and wondering about his fate after he disappeared from the store.

Oct 27, 2017

The Soulful Sound of Remembrance

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella reflects on the Jewish High Holy Days, finding solace and a profound connection to her late husband, Peter, through the soulful sound of Kol Nidre.

Oct 1, 2017

The Turtledove’s Gift

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella shares a tender memory of her childhood, triggered by a turtledove bathing in the rain. She recalls her mother’s gentle chiding and understanding smile, connecting the past to the present.

Sep 3, 2017

A Comforting Clip-Clop

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts preparing a meal for Yom Kippur, tending to her pets, and finding comfort in the familiar sound of police horses trotting down her street, a sound that has marked the passage of nearly forty years.

Sep 1, 2017

My Funny Valentine

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a quiet Friday morning, grappling with the raw pain of loss after her husband Peter’s death. She finds solace in the companionship of her dogs, classical music, and eventually, in singing along to an old musical, dedicating “My Funny Valentine” to his memory.

Jun 23, 2017

A Love Renewed

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the touching story of a Haitian couple, clients of her late husband Peter, who renewed their vows after building a successful life from humble beginnings, symbolizing their enduring love with a special ring.

Jun 20, 2017

The Night I Couldn’t Lift My Head

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a terrifying childhood experience during a family party when her nanny, Ashraf, left her in a precarious and frightening situation. This incident left a lasting impression of fear and resentment.

Jun 14, 2017

The Enduring Debates of Papa and Uncle Eddie

Family & Relationships
Childhood Memories
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts the lively, lifelong debates between her father and Uncle Eddie, weaving in family history, wartime experiences, and their eventual reunion in New York. She reflects on their strong personalities and the humorous arguments that defined their relationship.

Jan 21, 2017

The Greeter

Daily Musings
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts her recurring encounters with a kind greeter at a Spanish supermarket, reflecting on his quiet presence, his love for classical music, and her eventual wonder about his life and disappearance.

Dec 12, 2016

The Celestial Orchestra

Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid memory of a thunderstorm, comforting her dog Max, and sharing the awe-inspiring experience with her husband, Peter.

Nov 23, 2016

My Heroes in Blue

Daily Musings
Humor & Anecdotes
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts the terrifying moment her dog, Ebony, went missing and the heartwarming rescue by two New York City police officers. She expresses profound gratitude for their kindness and dedication.

Nov 2, 2016

Autumn

Nature & Seasons
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on the arrival of autumn, observing the changing colors of the leaves and the distinct smells of the season. She muses on the passage of time with each changing season.

Oct 28, 2016

Oreo

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes

Grandma Stella recounts a humorous and terrifying experience during a family visit to Los Angeles, where she faced her intense fear of mice when her niece’s pet mouse, Oreo, had the run of the house.

Sep 1, 2016

Echoes of a Winter Earache

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a vivid childhood memory of suffering from an ear infection on a snowy winter day, finding comfort in her mother’s care and simple pleasures.

Mar 6, 2016

Max and the Con Ed Man

Family & Relationships
Humor & Anecdotes
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella recounts a magical winter morning walk with Peter and their dog, Max, which takes an unexpected turn when a suspicious Con Ed man comes to the door, revealing Max’s protective instincts and saving Stella from a potential robbery.

Feb 1, 2016

The Winter Train Whistle

Family & Relationships
Love & Romance
Daily Musings

Grandma Stella reflects on a peaceful winter morning, recalling cherished memories with Peter and the distant sound of a train whistle. She fondly remembers their shared life as a beautiful dream.

Jan 24, 2016

A Tribute From Matthew On The Seventh Anniversary Of Our Peter’s Passing

Loss & Grief
Family & Relationships
Poetry

Grandma Stella shares a poignant poem written by Matthew, commemorating the seventh anniversary of Peter’s passing. The tribute beautifully reflects on Peter’s character, his impact on others, and the enduring grief of his loved ones.

Jun 1, 2015

Our Magical Oakland Lake

Family & Relationships
Nature & Seasons
Loss & Grief

Grandma Stella shares heartwarming memories of her morning walks with Peter and their dog Max at Oakland Lake, a place filled with wildlife and cherished moments. She recounts the joy and eventual sadness tied to this special place, culminating in a poignant final visit.

May 31, 2015

The Night of Afshar Tousse

Childhood Memories
Reflections on Life
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella recounts a terrifying childhood memory from Iran, where she witnessed the gruesome death throes of a political figure, Afshar Tousse. This traumatic event resurfaced years later after reading a disturbing news piece, prompting reflections on violence and peace.

Sep 1, 2012

Reflections on Resilience and Conflict

Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life
Childhood Memories

Grandma Stella shares her family’s history as Iraqi Jews, recounting their escapes from Iraq and Iran and their journey to the United States. She reflects on their resilience in starting over multiple times, contrasting it with her perspective on the Palestinian narrative of victimhood in conflict.

May 20, 2012

The Story of Purim: Queen Esther’s Courage

Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships
Reflections on Life

Grandma Stella recounts the biblical story of Purim, detailing Queen Esther’s bravery in saving her people from Haman’s wicked decree in ancient Persia. It’s a timeless tale of courage, faith, and divine intervention, often shared across generations.

Mar 1, 2001

Fading Echoes and Childhood Gardens

Loss & Grief
Childhood Memories
Family & Relationships

Grandma Stella reflects on the painful decline of her mother due to dementia, which prompts her to revisit vivid and cherished memories of her childhood in Baghdad and Iran, including her grandfather, a dramatic escape, and the household staff.

Apr 22, 1997
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